A Lot or a Little?
What you will—and won't—find in this book.
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Educational Value
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Quotes from poets and authors including Virginia Woolf, Dr. Seuss, Cesare Pavese, and Robert Lowell. Mention of the Bronte sisters. Jovian-Plutonian gravitational-effect hoax explained. Statistics and facts about several methods of suicide. Author's note relates personal experience with a friend who committed suicide and provides many links to sites about suicide prevention, mental illness, surviving another's suicide, bullying, and abuse. Some geography of Indiana, including places of interest and important figures such as writer James Whitcomb Riley.
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Positive Messages
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Mental illness should be thought of like physical illness, but people are more sympathetic if they can see what's hurting you. What's important is not what you take but what you leave behind. Don't overlook the small things while you're waiting for something big to happen.
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Positive Role Models
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Finch has had behavioral problems in the past with fighting, smashing things, and setting off fireworks at school; in the present, he refuses to fight back when provoked or beaten. He thinks about suicide a lot. He manages to help Violet return to normal life after grieving by demonstrating how to make the most of your time on earth. He doesn't pressure Violet to have sex even after they've been making out. Violet at first is coccooned in her grief and wants only to put more time between herself and past tragic events, eventually learning to live in the moment. She does the right thing by seeking help when she learns a friend may be suicidal and models tremendous resilience and optimism after enduring multiple tragedies.
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Violence & Scariness
a little
Bullying includes name-calling, knocking books out of arms, aggressively bumping, and slamming into a locker. A few fights, one in which a father beats his son. Characters are punched in the eyes and nose; smashed in the mouth, nose, and ribs; held underwater; slammed against a wall; and strangled. Pain and injuries briefly mentioned. Blood's mentioned a couple of times but not described.
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Sex, Romance & Nudity
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Older teens talk about sex, mostly along strict gender lines that accept the double standard as the norm. Boys mention "getting laid" and "scoring," saying, "Did you hit that yet?" and similar things. Sexual activity is associated with slu*ttiness in girls. Main characters have mature, matter-of-fact attitudes about sex. A dozen or so kisses are not described in detail. A few make-out sessions mention kissing with tongue, hands under shirts, skin-to-skin contact, and needing a lot of willpower not to go all the way. Older teens have sex a few times, but it's not described. No contraception or protection against STDs is mentioned, nor are there any consequences to sex.
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Language
a lot
Frequent use of profanity: "s--t" and variations, occasionally "f--k," "a--shole," "piss," "dumbass," "bulls--t," "SOB" and variations, "goddamn," "hell," "bitch" and variations, "fa*ggot," "prick," "-ass" as a suffix, "damn," "slu*t," and "whor*." A parent's T-shirt says, "Suck it." A car is nicknamed "Little Bastard."
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Products & Purchases
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Facebook, CW, Google, Target, Saturn, Old Navy, American Eagle, Abercrombie, Macaroni Grill, NoDoz, Red Bull, Chevy Impala, Airstream, Chick-fil-A, American Spirit, Chuck Taylor, Keds.
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Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
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A few mentions of high school kids drinking beer at parties. A 19-year-old talks about being drunk. A car interior smells of smoke and pot. A main character doesn't like drugs but keeps sleeping pills on hand. A teen takes half a bottle of sleeping pills. Teens smoke cigarettes, including in a scene during PE with no consequences.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that All the Bright Places is the young-adult debut of the author of the Velva Jean series, and suicide is the central theme. The message is ultimately hopeful, but the path to finding hope is heartbreaking, and readers should keep a hankie close by. High school seniors wrestle with complex issues, mostly stemming from protagonist Finch's constant thinking about suicide, including the death of a loved one; mental illness; committing suicide and losing someone to it; abuse; and adult attitudes toward drinking, sex, and smoking. Lots of strong language includes frequent use of "a--hole" and "s--t," and a wide variety of other strong language is used once or twice each. Older teens and young adults smoke. Kissing is mentioned a dozen times or so, and making out with hands under shirts is briefly described once or twice. Seventeen-year-olds have sex a couple of times, but it's not described. Some details about different methods of suicide are explored, mostly by weighing the pros and cons of each. The author's note provides helpful websites about suicide, mental illness, bullying, and more.
What's the Story?
Violet and Finch meet six stories up, on the ledge of their school's bell tower. They couldn't be more different: She's popular, with a bright future at a top college; he's an outsider labeled a "freak." When they partner up on a geography project to explore their home state of Indiana, they begin to learn what drove each of them up and out onto that ledge and soon fall in love. Finch starts to bring Violet out of the grief she's been wrapped in for the past year, and with Violet Finch can truly be himself. Can Finch and Violet help each other to stay in this "messed-up world"?
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about suicide and mental illness. Where can you turn for help? What can you do if you think someone you know is serious about it?
Finch wishes mental illness was seen as the same as a physical illness. Do you think it can be? Why is it such a stigma in our society?
Why do you think the author switches point of view between Finch and Violet? Did both narrators seem realistic to you? Did you like one better than the other? Why?
